Category: Dating and Relationships
well, just really wondering what both guys & girls think of anal sex? I'd imagine guys like it more than girls?
Hmmm, probably not the perspective you're looking for, but as a gay guy, I do like receiving some good anal from time to time. I'm totally a bottom, though. I'm not interested in giving the guy Anal, but I'll sure let him give it to me. i'm pretty much the same with oral.
it isn't my thing.
me neither. mor power to those who like it, though.
By the way, this topic has been brought up before.
Ewww...grossss...hell no, not for me.
dude hasn't this topic been brought up like several times already? Lol.
I! hate! dirtbox actions. It's only my let out, I say.
how about the original poster? wonder whether he's in search of an anal partner? lol.
Raaj.
I am not a fan of doing it up the poop chute.
Have tried it before and it's done absolutely nothing for me.
It is definitely not for me.
Yeah, I've seen this topic brought up once before.
lol Raaj, sounds like something you would say. :p
And I agree with the majority here; it isn't something I would wanna try, and I'd imagine guys enjoy it more than girls do, especially if it's a girl's first time doing it. ;d lol
I would die before accepting anal sex. This tissue is fragile and breaks easily, hence the channel for HIV virus. Anyone into this and not using a condom I hope you have public health department that sees a good number of gay males as patients, you'll need to be checked from time to time for std's in this location of the body.
I don't think I would like doing it period. Especially since... Well... When your done, your dick is coverd in excrement.
good point. So I say no thank you.
"I hope you have public health department that sees a good number of gay males as patients." Um? Not exactly sure what orientation has to do with this. There are plenty of straight folks who do like Anal. Liking Anal sex does not make you gay. Although, after all the negativity, the straight guys that do like Anal will probably not post here.
I've never tried it but a few of my friends have and it is pretty painful at first and they don't get much out of it but once you get the hang of it and do it more, it is apparently very good and is just as pleasurable as regular sex
Anal sex is not the only way one contracts H.I.V./AIDS... it can be contracted and passed around through vaginal sex as well.
As for the penis being covered in shit afterwards, this is not completely true all of the time. The guy I was with the first time I did anal checked himself out afterwards and said that he was comparatively fecal free. This didn't stop him from washing up before we proceeded, but at least he wasn't covered in the stuff.
You can clean yourself out, if you have enough time to plan for it and know you'll be doing anal.
I've tried it, its alright. Its not something I'd want to do every time, but if the moment is right, I wouldn't say no.
Sponge, anthony is right, just because you have anal sex doesn't mean your gay, and just because your gay doesn't mean you have anal sex, and just because you have anal sex doesn't mean your gonna get aids. Here's a better tip, don't have sex with someone who has aids, anal, vaginal, oral or otherwise.
Thank you very much, Cody.
Ive had a few guys tell me that its probably that the guy aint doin it right that i don't like it. But i just don't like it at all. But that too is also true. Not all guys know how to do it right.
Im a lil curious tho, if males like doin it & some couples like it, i wonder if a girl to girl like it as much as they do? Or just other things..never really thought about that..
So much miss information about anal sex because it is taboo. It doesn't have to hurt bad the first time, and many woman enjoy it even more then vaginal sex. The method is the means. It is so that everyone won't like it, and some women just can't do it. You are not covered in anything if a woman takes a bath before hand. Lube is your friend, and patients wins the girls permission every time. It is safe, enjoyable, and clean as any other sex, so condoms aren't needed. I suggest any man wanted it from a woman read up on the subject, and women also read up on it to make it better providing you decide to try. Many women use a vibrator in fromt to double the pleasure. Nothing is off limits in good sex. Smile.
I must say this is an interesting topic. Yes, I guess cleaning yourself out first would make sense. No I don't think liking it would "make" you gay. To think that it does is just silly in my view. I guess if my gf wanted to try it out I'd be on board but it is not my main method if you get my drift.
Sorry Devilish Anthony. I can't vouch for public health where you are, but where I am these departments have what one even calls "gay pride" care, and I've worked with my share of paperwork out of std clinics and not seen even one patient name that looked female having std tests swabbed from the anus, so I'm guessing the original poster has a hunch about this...most people willing to try it are male.
So because you, in your small little part of massachusetts have never seen it, that means that the same must be said for the rest of the world, and that scientific fact couldn't possibly have anything to do with it, because if it did, you would have seen it, is that what your saying? Do you know why you don't see many of them, because most of the STD's that are common nowadays are not transmitted through anal sex, even aids, which is not an STD by the way, is only rarely passed from partner to partner through anal sex. In order for an STD to pass, there must, in most cases, be transmition of fluids, there are no fluids in the anus. Vaginal sex is actually more dangerous from an STD standpoint, along with oral sex, than anal sex is.
In a lot of european social circles, anal sex is used as a way to have sex before losing your virginity. the actual logic of this is debateable, but its done because anal sex is not actually all that dangerous. Yes, the tissue is soft, but the membrane of the vagina is just as soft, do you know why? Because its the same exact membrane.
Seriously squid, I think this phrase is very appropriate for this board, "get your fuckin' head out of your ass."
I didn't mean you have to clean yourself out. You just need to wash. A bath, or some warm water, a towel, and some mild soap on the outside does great. A shower even. You don't needan enema or anything. The anus is self cleaning. Sure you might incounter some stuff their, but not much and a good lube takes care of that.
STD's can be transfered via anal sex, but no more then any other sex, so its just not the bad nasty deed. Sorry. As I said many women can get even more pleasure from it, and in the days of no fancy meds it was a great and still is, birth control method. Both partners enjoy sex without the worry of pregnancy.
Some food for thought. You have to wonder why nature makes many women able to accomadate a man in that fashion. Next when they are comfortable with it they get some much pleasure out of it. Why would nature build pleasure nerves in the female anus? Many men do as well, so it is an interesting subject.
I can tell that this topic is bringing some folks into choppy waters. I have to wonder why it is such a touchy subject. I mean, if you are into it, more power to you.
True, but the topic is what do you think about it. Smile, so these that don't like it can say. These that have never tried it, or had it done right can't really say only from where they are now. These that like it much can say. Now us that like and enjoy it have to hear from these that don't how we're gonna get the black death. We that enjoy it have not told them they are gonna get the black death if they don't. It brings out strong feelings, because it is so taboo in so many societies. I for one stand on the giving side and say it is a good, healthy, and plesurable activity, but if you don't like it fine with me. Guess I need to write out my will and last testament, huh? Smile.
I'm just not really curious about it at all. It's like ewww! It's an exit only kinda place for me lol..
Anthony, you don't like giving oral nor anal..you gotta give a little and not just take..lol..jk..
P.S. Gays get aids. straight people get aids. black, white, asian and so on get aids. Women can get HIV from the buttsex as well as vaginal sex.
My 2 cents is if you like it go for it..if you don't than don't. If your partner can't or doesn't respect you cause you don't want to have anal sex and they pressure you than kick him/her to the curb!!
I've never done it. I want to try it though. I'm quite in to pain so if it hurts, then oh well. And, i know a lot of girls that have tried it and enjoyed it but i probably know just as many who havent. As for all that other stuff, i agree with cody. I can't really speak on how it feels since i've never done it. However, i wouldn't do it regularly after i try it. Just every once in a while because i don't know if its possible, but i wouldn't want any dammage being done to that area. I'd rather not spend the rest of my life incontinent. But, again, i don't know if it can dammage it so i might just be parranoyed.
Oh lord no, UniqueOne. I love giving oral. I'm not quite so much in to getting oral. It's totally the opposite with anal though. I just don't have enough equipment to be a top, but I love to be fucked. Well, since you did bring it up. *big smile* Sorry for any confusion.
Lol..Anthony you're so blunt it's interesting! :)
True.
Austin
"My little part of Massachusetts?" Honey I'm not that far from Boston proper, and we have a sizable gay population. One of our city public health departments just released the stat that 63% of new HIV positive cases are among gay males. Sure, 37% are female, pediatric, i v drug users, but last I heard 63% is still a majority. I'm not condemning gays. The thread was about anal sex, which I have no interest in, and all I'm saying if that is your thing take precautions, same as anyone else.
Stats don't mean shit. sorry. Results can be altered, they can decide to test only certain people to get results that speak for their opinions. Like others have said, just don't have sex with anyone you know is HIV positive. You can get AIDS from any type of sex.
No, what you were doing was making a snide remark that if you have anal sex, you'll end up with aids, and that you hope the local health department works with gay males. I swear, can you come up with anything that isn't a statistic you read somewhere? If its not on an episode of spongebob or in a study you read somewhere, do you have the capability to come up with anything original?
What you were doing was trying to be a prick and succeeding. You made a biggoted comment because you don't like something, and others do. So that means that the thing you don't like must be dangerous. Yeah, you have to take precautions with anal sex, but that has nothing to do with homosexuality, and for someone whose not trying to slight on gays, you were the only one who mentioned them in regards to this post. Seems kinda telling that the rest of the people who don't like it were able to say, "nope, not really my thing", but you had to go, "I hope you have a health department that works with gay people"; as if only gay people have anal sex, and they all have aids from it.
You can disagree with someone all you like, but you don't have to condemn the thing as inherently dangerous, simply because you don't like it. That makes you ignorant and immature. You need to grow up, stop watching the shows meant for six year olds, and start realizing that the little bit of life you've been exposed to, might not actually be all there is. AKA, pull your fuckin' head out of your ass.
As Ocean dream says, stats mean nothing. Blow it out your ass...no pun inteneded...
I have pondered this topic recently I am sorta wanting to try it! At last it ant happening and I can respcet my lady fore her feelings.
Somehow, Dan, I think you'd enjoy the hell out of it.
lol anthony.
I think that anal sex, or any other kind of sex, is up to the two or however many people involved. i.e. I have no opinion about it per se, however I have tried it several times and it does hurt me, even when it was a consentual thing. Of course the time I was raped anally it really hurt. I don't believe that one is more likely to get aids from it than from any other kind of sex.
Yes, being forced like that can really hurt. I've been there as well.
A really sad business. Rape is not sex.Not for pleasure. Sick! Sorry had to say that.
i have done it many times but it is not my favorite sexual activity.
once in a while, though, i have someone do it to me to “scratch an itch” but that is not that frequent.
my advice is: don’t knock it till you’ve tried it. and if you’re afraid of catching anything (and from what i have been led to understand, unprotected anal sex is no more dangerous than any other unprotected sex), use a condom and/or require that your partner do the same.
Never done it, hopefully never will. I'm down for just about anything, and everyone who knows me knows that, but I don't like the thought of a big ol cock being shoved up my exit door, it's not made for that sort of thing.
I have performed anal sex on a few women, and I loved it. I had one ex girlfriend who was adventurous and decided to try and sneak in my back door with her dildo, well that was a screamingly bad time for me. SHe obviously had no clue what she was doing.
Hahaha, it's usually always less pleasant for the receiver than for the giver Rob, and of course having someone doing it who doesn't know what the hell they're doing doesn't help. lol. It being unpleasant to receive is not always the case but still. The asshole is tighter and more resistant than the vagina because it wasn't designed for fucking, so that makes it feel better on a cock.
I actually read someplace that women are multi designed. Most, but not all can accomadate providing things are done gently and slowly at first. Many enjoy as well even to the point of intense orgasms, so I don't know. But I've posted this before here I think. Smile.
i have fucked some guys into “anal orgasms” before, but not often.
this is something i have yet to do with a woman though.
btw, my itch got scratched a few weeks ago. *g*
As far as I'm concerned the ass is exit only.
I'm not interested in performing anal on a guy, but I do like it when a guy will let me play with his ass while I'm sucking or jerking him off. I enjoy that even more than him giving me anal.
Well each to their own I suppose. I just know where I! stand on the issue LOL.
The only issue I see with standing is your partner must be about the same height. Lay down on it instead?
I prefer to ride. It's been a long time since I've done it, though. There's nothing like putting my hands on the guy's chest and just riding the hell out of him.
my thoughts on this topic is. If it isn't to big to fit then go for it. There's this one one I do it with alot and god knows his cock is to large for me to take.
I do like it in the ass yes but not all of the time
yes it does feel good once it is in.
and while that is in I stick my fingers in my pussy and make that feel good to.
but I like it some times not all of the time when I am in the mood for it.
I think that is a healthy aproach. If you're in the mood for it, then go for it, otherwise, stay away.
I like it when a guy teases me with it, lubing up his cock and sliding it up and down the crack of my ass, asking me how badly I really want it and rubbing his lips against my neck. I love for him to take his time, putting the head of his cock against my hole and slowly pushing. I love not knowing exactly when he'll push hard enough to let the head pop in. If it's my first time with that guy, I'd rather ride him, so I can control it, just until I learn what he's like. It's really hard to say what my absolute favorite position is. If the guy is really in to it, chances are that I'll end up liking it.
I have never tried it and never will.
I know a guy who was raped there and had damage done to his colon.
I guess those who like it mor power to you!
Here's a female's point of view on this. I don't mind anal. Provided that it's with someone I trust and am in a loving relationship. It's not especially painful once you get the hang of it and you use quite a bit of lube. And, no, you don't come out of it with your dick covered with excrement. Not necessarily. It's just like with anything else. I mean, it has to do with the receiver's general hygeen. For instance, if someone doesn't wash regularly or is just generally dirty, you can have a not-so-clean penis if you've engaged in vaginal intercourse. Similarly, you can wash up and clean your anus as you normally would during a shower, and you can have clean anal sex. Sure, you have to clean up a little afterword, just to be sure, but it's not disgusting or anything. Why is anal sex any more dirty than oral, mind you? And yet, so many people find anal much more taboo than oral. to me, anal symbolizes intimacy. I think you have to be very trusting of your partner to allow them to partake in that sort of adventure with you. That's my say, and I'm not ashamed of it. And before someone has the brilliant idea to call me a whore because, how could I possibly enjoy anal sex if I wasn't one, I'll let you know that I've only ever engaged in any sexual activity with two people, and I was in a relationship with both of them at the time.
Sorry, but if a person doesn't wash I'm not having anything with her period. Clean is the rule for any way you are going.
Anal can be quite good, just be sure to have plenty of lube on hand and take it slow;make sure the girl is relaxed and comfortable with the pace. Starting with a finger or two than a toy can help ease her into it.
Wow, here's something I just now saw. It came across my twitter.
about 17 minutes ago, The House Of WTF? posted Ladies, if anal sex feels good for you without a prostate gland, imagine how good it feels for us with one.
Well I've not met a girl with a penis yet, nor a strap on in her purse, so can't say.
Oh, forgot I don't agree with starting with fingers. One should start with a tongue. Smile.
I love anal sex
Just being honest, I'd rather put it in the other place.
I'd be willing to try it under the right circumstances, but its not a big shining number 1 on my list of things I'd like to do, though it is somewhere on my bucket list. If I like it when it happens, more might follow. What I am trying to impart is that the idea doesn't entirely repulse me, and fascinates me to some degree, but it wouldn't be the highlight of the year if I took part in it. Just another way to show intimacy in a trusting and deep relationship, not really to be explored without that limitation. Just my personal opinion.
Not like I stay up night thinking about the bords, but this statement is on my mind. Lol.
Write Away, please explain why you say "you can have a not-so-clean penis if you've engaged in vaginal intercourse?"
How is this when the vagina is self cleaning? What kind of not so clean are you talking about?
she means its all sticky.
Well the ass is not a clean place.
It is a dirty place.
The vegina is a clean place by the way.
yeah, but really, when you're having sex, do you really stop to think about what is clean and what is dirty? I mean a penis is not the cleanest of places, and don't get me started on how dirty mouthes are, and you'll put those things anywhere.
If it feels good, do it, that's what I say.
Hell yeah! And it does feel really good, so do it over and over again. There's nothing like sucking a cock, getting it all wet and then letting it slide inside your ass. I especially love the oral.
Or even putting some lobe on it.
You put it in my ass and I say oh daddy to my husband
I know a girl who likes having anal with her husband. both recieving it and giving it back to him. yai to strapons!
as for me, i, don't think i'd be into it. my comment, hell i poop out of there...
She made it sound like mud was going to come from the vagina.
Where's the ass? I love dirty places? Lol
For real, I've heard stories. lol. No, theoretically, the vagina is a clean place... But what about the women who get cronic yeast infections? What about those who have really horrible PH balance, either because of her genetic makeup or because of.. well, having too many sexual partners. Familiar with that? Are you? lol. A woman's PH balance can be kept under control with regular showering, but what if someone isn't so regular about that, and what if someone doesn't know they have a yeast infection, if they're not educated about that sort of thing, or just don't care. I don't care if people believe that a vagina is a self-cleansing part of your body; If you don't bathe regularly and take care of your hygiene, even mother nature can't help you. Sorry. You're screwed. Or not. lol. Maybe that's not something you guys think about... But as a woman who cares about personal hygiene, and as someone who's friends with a few guys who have a few stories to tell, believe me. A vagina isnt' all that clean. Maybe you wont' necessarily have mud on your penis, but dammit if you start itching all over because of a yeast infection a couple days after having intercourse with certain women who just don't know or don't care. lol. Point taken?
But how clean is the cleanist vagina? Okay, this is controvertial but if one has cleaned well, isn't a hole a hole? I know how sick that sounds but it's food for thought.
Well the cleanest vagina is as clean as the cleanest mouth, meaning you can kiss it and not get fungus.
Now write Away, you are correct, but you can smell these things, and I am a guy that is much in to smell. If a woman is not clean and has yeast she and I aren't having sex. Think about this, if she is not woman enought to care about her body she is either lazy, or not mentally balanced. Mental I'd feel like I was using herso would give her a bath and nothing else. Lazy untidy women aren't my cup of tea. I'm just not that horney. Lol
I agree with forereel I do not like to fuck a stinker person
That is gorse
That is just sick
Ah. yes. true. Unpleasant odor is a sure sign of an unkempt kitty. lol. Still, people do find themselves in situations like the ones I've outlined in my previous post. I outlined them because I was trying to prove a point that, indeed, vaginas aren't all that clean, which was to dispute a previous poster's statement that anal sex is so much more dirty than vaginal intercourse. And then further because For Real seemed to try to dispute that a vagina can't possibly be that dirty since it's supposedly self-cleaning. lol. But one could also argue, for real, that a vagina that gives off some sort of odor is just one that belongs to a woman with strong feromones. She may not be all that dirty. By the same token, if your prospective partner's foofoo smells like the salmon she cooked you for dinner-- Run!!! Don't look back!! Or you risk vaginal mudd on your dick, or a yeast infection, or worse!!
Some would think that that probably goes without mention, but ya never know. Horniness concors all in some cases. Even the nastiness of a dirty girl--And dirty, not in the sexy sense.
lol
Every one has there oponions
Yes, and also there opinions. Lol. My point is that a person can only be as clean as they can get.
Ya and girls may be gross in this way.
Girls mite be so gorse that they mite not dough.
People who do not take a show are gorse to.
they don't shower and they want you to stick it wherever it can go. ack!
Okay Write Away, yes a female musky scent is actually nice, but you have made a point. Lol
Don't even want dinner. Think about it, she's that dirty she's going to scratch, and.
i'd think it would hurt only because that isn't meant for shoving things into unless you need to get something done, and in that case I hope its by a doctor.
I disagree. Ancient birth control method!
Interesting take on it.
Interesting, but affective.
interesting and affective, I say!
i've slid a finger a single finger up mind you and yeah, it's just, it. doesn't really do anything for me. anything bigger then a single finger, fuck no. though i see what you mean yai to ancient birth control.
I've never tried it, but I doubt it would be satisfying to me. The ass hole just isn't meant for a penis to go up. It's the exit, not the entrance.
In that case, the dick is made to go in to the pussy. Is it really meant to go in to a mouth? A mouth is meant to be our way of consuming foods that are hopefully good for us, allowing us to survive. Is it really meant to perform oral sex with? I mean, if we're going to apply that sort of logic across the board, then...
to each their own, I say. I agree with Ryan, though; exit only.
Ah, but I also say never say never.
Some guys would say they're never putting it up a girls arse because that's gay. Gay until of course they want a blow job. Afterall, a mouth is a mouth whether it's encircled with a goatee or completely smoothe.
There is no logic whatsoever refusing anal because it's gay, unless, like chippy said, you also hate blowjobs.
True. Women do also have assholes. People certainly have a strange way of looking at things.
I believe that any sort of sex including intercourse, anal sex, oral or manual stimulation can be wonderful expressions of shared physical attraction or can be used in violence against another human being. I don't believe that any one of these kinds of sex should be taboo, or considered unholy or unnatural. Both men and women can enjoy anal sex, and there are serious health concerns to take into account. Also, bear in mind that how every culture will view different types of sex acts will vary greatly. I think that a degree of sexual openness to at least understanding about the benifits and risks of different sex acts and positions should be considered. I also believe that what an individual is willing to try and is able to enjoy will depend on the degree of trust in the relationship they have with their sexual partner and their personal and cultural upbringing. If anyone really wants to know I encourage them to do internet research and try and find materials intended for the use of or written by professional sexual health educators. Usually websites with dot org or dot edu are the most reliable sources and help to avoid being inindated with porn or computer viruses. www.talksexwithsue.com is a good starting point, but there are a few views that Sue Johanson holds that aren't quite as open minded as I'd like to see, but the informationn is pretty good. Also finding quality erotica can be difficult, but it's out there. If your college ever offers a human sexuality class I highly recommend you take it although one taught from the sociological or anthrapological perspective is likely to be more informative and more interesting than one from the psychology field. Hope someone finds this helpful.
I don't think it's bad if people like anal sex, it's all in how comfortable someone is with it. For example, I've tried it but I have mixed oppinions about it because while the last time I had it, it felt really good, the first time I had it, it was extremely painful. Also, to the person talking about riding it first till you are comfortable, that seems like it would hurt even more than him slowly going into you, but I've never been on top while doing anal... so I wouldn't know...
If I'm riding it, I have some control on how fast I take it. It just seems to work better for me that way. That way, I'm not quite so dependant on the guy's word that he'll be really slow and gentle.
I guess I'll weigh in on this, since mainly people who had reservations to it were doing so out of prudishness or some other self-absorbed, better-than-the-rest-of-us motive.
Now, I'm not saying for others, but here have been my own reservations on that one:
First, I had grown up being sort of taught, I guess, that women feel used by it, more of that shame-based so-called objectifying thing.
And then there's like some of you said: "He didn't know how to do it right." Bingo: every man or woman's first time doing anything, even if they've done many things related, won't be done right. So there's a turn-off right there.
But also, since we already know that entering a vagina before she's ready has hazards associated with it: like tearing and the like, mainly associated with rapers. But the anus doesn't inflate or however you say that, not like the vagina does. And it's not that big, so that is one more strike against it in my book. But while I can't say it's moved me to wish to try it, I can say this borad, especially posts by women on it, has been informative. As I've said in recent years, so much of what perhaps we thought we knew is really seeming to be more questions than answers. So there ya go: not all of us who might have misgiving on this are some sort of phobic types, or self-absorbed, control-freak prudes.
We see it on televission and such as used as a way to control women. It doesn't have to be that way at all. A hole is a hole, is what I've come to believe.
I think any sex can be used to subjigate women. However, sex can be an enjoyable thingfor both parties. Its not objectifying if they desire it. Some girls love anal sex.
Yes, some girls love anal sex. One has posted it hurt the first time, but after she liked it.
Some girls say they come more intense as I have posted, and I personally know some that do, and ask for it.
I also know some that claimed they'd never be touched like that, because it was just pervert, but after they gave it a try were hooked. They'd never admit it to their girlfriends, but in private its on!
Close your mind, and decide something is wrong it will be. Some women can't do it physically, and some just don't like it, but control, rape, or other associations are society driven.
You don't hear women saying they'll never have vaginal sex, because that is what rapest do right?
It is true that things don't work the first time always, but that shouldn't close the door.
I keep seeing anal sex has health risk. What health risk?
I really need to look that up.
What I mean is if it is done clean and you aren't going from anus to vaginal without washing, and you aren't busting someone open by force, than what?
Okay. I did some new research to learn if there were new health risk.
I still stand on sex being sex, and having sex is a health risk. I don't plan on not having sex, so I suppose I'm a risk factor. Lol.
Live long, have plenty sex, and be happy!
I think it is absolutely disgusting, no question whatsoever! The anus is for defecation purpices, and thus the skin tissue is thinner and can easally break, I mean isn't a woman's vagina enough? After beeing sexually active she has to go through pap smears and what not, god almighty, Help help help! :@
And the mouth is for eating and breathing purposes, but damn if it doesn't feel good when used on a man's penis or on a girl's vagina. Just because something has a primary function, doesn't mean it can't be used for sexual gratification.
And where has thou hand been?
Oy vey, I just love the last three posts. How can you condemn something you've most obviously never experienced? I understand having reservations for it, but having such a strong aversion to something that's never been done to you... Yeah.
Cody, I bet she also thinks oral is disgusting, so your point was probably a moot one in thsi case but good argument otherwise. I saw once, that a man whose penis couldnt' function correctly due to an accident had been somehow surgically reprogramed to use his thumb in the same way as he would a penis. now, I dont' mean that he was able to just finger the person he was with; Abyone could do that obviously; Bt somehow, his docs were able to transmit some of the nerves in his penis to his thumb, so he could be stimulated in much the same way as he would with his penis. I know for sure that I'm not explaining this right, but I'll research it later and get back to you guys on it if interested. lol. I'm too lazy to do it at the moment; It's just something that popped into mind.
I think I know what you're talking about atually. I don't remember the exact science behind it, but I read it somewhere I believe. I remember thinking that he'd better keep his fingernails really short.
Oh, and I think it's hilarious that Dolce said the anal tissue must tair because it has to be much more fragile than vaginal tissue. Well, actually, it's not so much the tissue that makes up anal flexibility as it is the sphinktor and other anal muscles, but that's besides the point. Let's approach this from the laman's point of view, since I'm not very good at detailing the human anatomy.
This might be distasteful, but bare with me, please. lol. If you take a huge, solid dump, which, let's face it, it's happened to all of us as humans I'm sure. (well, unless of course miss Dolce is too dainty to take a huge, solid dump), but anyway, in this case, you have to accomodate the fecal matter, don't you? And this fecal matter, mind you, is not all perfectly round and smooth; It takes an imperfect shape and it's solid, so it could be painful to pass. It often is, right? But your anus doesnt' tair, does it? Nuff said. Actually no. I'll say one more thing. And I'm not ashamed of this either, mind you, because it's a perfectly normal, human thing to say. I've experienced anal before, and with a well endowed partner. And I'll actually say this: it's much less painful to take a well endowed partner anally than it is to rid yourself of that damned solid dump. lol. Sorry for the lack of class here, but I just had to say it. it's just the truth. lol
Just so the records is straight. I have seen the thing about the tissue in a medical write up. It was in the same on I was reading about all the diseases associated with anal sex.
Now, I've never seen or heard of anyone comming while taking a dump, but they do offten during anal sex. Go figure. Smile.
If you think about the act of sex from a clinical point of view, its some nasty stuff. Bring it on!
I've never tried it, but my sister told me that it's really nothing to write home about. She basically said that it's something you do after you have a fight with your partner and you really want to show them you've forgiven them, because for the guy it's more pleasurable since it's a tighter hole. That kind of made me think it was something that girls do because they feel it's their duty or something, lol. The other thing I want to know, and this is an honest question, what do guys find pleasurable about having a girl wear a strap-on? Obviously, I understand the physical aspect of it--the prostate gland is being stimulated, but why a strap-on? Wouldn't a guy think having a dildo up his ass is kind of gay? then again, I once read on this advice site for teens years ago about a kid who would stick gel pens up his ass and masturbate, so I guess a dildo would be safer than that, lol. Anyway, that's just something I'm curious about.
Oh god, maybe it's just me but I certainly found taking a dump less painful than anal, lol. Or at least the few times I had it anyway, accept maybe the last one. But very well put burnadetta regardless. The muscles have to accomodate such things anyway. No, maybe not for as long a time maybe but believe me, I'm sure sometimes what crawls out of your ass is just as big if not bigger, and more disgusting, :p
Certainly more disgusting, jess. lol.
For those of you who say anal must be unpleasant and very painful, I have one word for you: Lube, ladies and gentlemen, lube. For some people, I guess it doesn't do it all the way every time, but lube certainly helps things along quite nicely. Look. I'm not saying anal isnt' painful at some point or another. Initially, especially if the gentleman is well endowed, you feel it, ok? You do. I won't lie. lol. But if he's skilled and takes his time, especially in the beginning, he can make it at least bareable, if not enjoyable for the both of you. Just saying. lol.
And for you men out there. Don't be selfish. If you're doing anal, you can't concentrate on only your pleasure. Do other things for her to help it feel good. Rub her clit, its not hard.
From what I've been told the strap on just changes things up. It gives you the visual aspect or feel that a girl can fuck you anally.
The strap on also lets you feel her body against yours. A dildo is only her hand working it, so no body contact.
That is what I'm told, never tried it.
Yes, that lube works, and there are anal lubes specially made for it. You can even get an applicator to put the lube in well.
Instead of just going in how about relaxing her anus with other methods and her body, before you start?
Something you do after a fight? Never. Do it because you want to give pleasure not suffering to prove you love or have forgiven the person. Just say so.
wow. who would use sex as any sort of a bargaining chip. i guess more people do it than I'd like to admit to myself, but that's just fucked up.
i'll do such adn such to get someone to forgit me or to make sure they're not mad at me is so...Just, I caon't even describe how wrong that seems to me.
And cody's right. You can do plenty as a guy to make anal pleasurable and enjoyable for her.
I strongly agree Writer. Bargain sex is not for me.
Now otherwise I say all anal sex sessions should start with a nice hot bath and after that a wet warm tongue instead of a penis.
I'd bet good money that more women, if they admitted it, would love to be licked their. Oooh! Just freaky nasty!
hmmm not sure how I feel about that one...
That would have to be one clean ass hole. :P
Oh it isn't that bad. I mean if the girl hasn't showered or something I won't do it, but then I won't lick her pussy either. I don't get why people are so squeemish about licking the ass. So dirty stuff comes out of there. Dirty stuff comes out of the head of the penis and the vagina too, you're not squeemish about that. Hell, the human mouth is a disgusting place. I bet if your girlfriend wants to french kiss you don't say, "ooh, that's gross."
Nope, not bad at all.
The funny thing about it is that someone I know after she learned how it felt to be licked actually craves it and would put herself in position to get it.
Now out of bed she's always going on about how freaky other people are that like it.
I pointed out that she was a freak, and I never heard about freaky people again.
The only thing is, for this you can give it, but receiving it back is not happening. Seems to be one of these things that is one way. Lol
Wow, well, naa, not for me, I think it is used for a exit only, not knocking the people that have done it, or will do it, just saying, not my style.
I'd lick it, but it would have to be something more than just friends with benefits. I have to really be close to the person. There are only two people in my lifetime that I've even considered doing this to.
Well aren't you the hopeless romantic? lol.
Well it has been more than a year & half since I posted this message.. Well, I moved to Dubai (in the Middle East( since then, & after all that time.... I still find your conversation rather interesting. in particular the last few messages..... Without any meddical or social pressure, how you view anal sex??? Is it like anything else, "I heard its bad,,,, so I wouldn't do it" or it's honestly turning me on & I couldn't care what else ppl around me say... or simply just unnature way of sex production, so lets not even bother....
it's rather interesting than you might just think....
Would love to hear adult - well-informed opinions on this....
It's just like anything else in the world. Some like it, some don't, and some are just apathetic.
had it before but prefer vaginal
anal sex is just like any other type of sexual activity. whether or not you enjoy it depends on a number of factors. the sexual compatibility of the 2 people involved, and their atitudes towards it. I've heard a lot of people, both women and men, say they don't like it, its disgusting, all the usual kind of things people say. if you don't try, you'll never know
I've done it twice, always as the receiver, though I have the equipment to give it. I prefer to be a bottom though because I admit to being rather submissive. In fact, I kinda prefer being mildly dominated, soI really like being fucked. And it's really as clean or dirty as any other type of sex; you just have to remember to practice proper hygiene.
I hear ya! Where are all the masculine tops? XD
I took a quick glance back through this board, and didn't see this particular question addressed, but I might have just missed it. Anyway, Do any of you guys actually prefer anal sex to vaginal or oral sex? Obviously, I'm not talking about taking it, but since the ass is said to be tighter, I just wonder if any of you find that you can cum easier or more intensely in an ass. Have any of you women had boyfriends who seemed to enjoy giving you anal more than anything else?
Ah, good question.
I say it depends on the anus. Some people are really easy to get in to, so it is just a different feeling. Some it just doesn’t work, and some it works well, but after some patients, so these things are factors.
I think anal is more of a mental turn than a physical one, because you are possessing her completely. For some it is dirty, or taboo, and for others scary, but they are doing it anyway.
A girl can be just as tight front as back, and a girl can control her front better than her anus if she learns the trick.
I’d love to understand why some women find they have more intense orgasms from anal than vaginal?
I've tried it and I love it.
From a male's perspective the anus is much much tighter than a vagina. But I'll never suggest it because of the anamosity against it.
On the other hand I've never been a bottom because I'm pretty much heterosexual. However, a lady introduced me to anal fisting which was interesting once we discovered the joys of lube (much much lube). That was very interesting, and very stemulating. Unfortunately, she's married now.
Bob
The good ones always "get away!"
Well not always, but yes, more often than not, they do.
I wasn't too sad to see this one go, but there were some things I miss.
Bob
I'm actually trying to remember the last time I got my ass fucked. It's been years, so it should be plenty tight now. I can't imagine having a fist in there. Just no no no! But feeling a cock rubbing up and down the crack and then feeling the head as he positions it against my hole is just yummy. If I know the guy is gentle, I like for him to stand behind me, just teasing me for a bit, kissing my neck and driving me wild with anticipation.
Well, different strokes and all that. Hahaha I said strokes! I'll grow up someday folks. In all seriousness I wonder how I might get my girl to try it.
Give her a book on the subject, or suggest you read one together. Take her out, come back and take a nice bath together, then give her a massage, and suggest trying. Maybe sure you have all you need on hand for it. I don't know if it will work, but that is the start.
Also, read up on the subject yourself. If you try, and hurt her much, you may never get her to try again, so
Yep, and don't forget--lots of lube!! And good quality lube too. Don't use that nasty cheap stuff--it's unpleasant to say the least.
we have a saying in the UK. one up the bum, no halm done. lol.
on the real though. anal sex is a divisive subject. some love it, some hate it. most who say they hate it have either never tried it, or have experienced it with someone who doesn't know what they are doing. I know from personal experience that it can be a very pleasurable thing to do. obviously I've never experienced it from a womans point of view, and i'm not remotely bisexual. there are women who get off on it as much as guys, and there are guys who would never consider it because they consider it dirty or what ever. I just think don't knock it until you've tried it.
well I like the bath suggestion...mmm.
LOL Dale. I love that saying. I don't think I can add anything that I haven't already said here, but if the guy I'm with wants to give it to me, I'm more than happy to accomidate, but for the most part, I can take it or leave it. Oral and just plain body contact is more my thing. Not trying to be overly graphic, but there's something hot about a guy thrusting in to me when he's right on the edge, so yes, I do find it to be very pleasureable.
I think many men would admit they enjoy anal play if it wasn't thought of as gay when it is done to you. If you apply a girl to the end of a finger, strap on, or some other method, many real men drool. It's physical guys, not orintational.
I see what you are saying but personally I don't think I'd even want a finger up my ass.
Try one. That way you'll not have to wonder. Smile.
You might like it, or you might not, but you'll never know if you don't try, and if you're not curious, then that's okay too. If you're with someone that you trust and you know she'd be gentle, you might find that having her slide a finger in there as she's blowing you is quite wonderful. If you ever do decide to try it, hopefully, the woman will get her fingers all slicked up and then play with your ass while she's blowing you. Once you're comfortable with that, perhaps a finger will just sort of slide in. a finger is small. Your terds are bigger, so it shouldn't hurt if it's a lubed finger and she's gentle and you're relaxed. Be sure to let us know how it went, too!
Valid points Anthony. I guess I've never thought about it much.
after talking with a few people, I've decided to ask this question. If it's already been asked here, I apologize. It been a while since I've gone through and read each post.
My question is, have any of you guys ever had anal sex with a woman as well as with a man? If so, did it feel different in any way? I know the obvious. The guy's ass cheek skin will be rougher and hairier, but once you're inside, is it any different? write me privately, if you'd rather do it that way, but I'm really curious and would love to get some perspective from those who have experienced both.
So, here goes, my thoughts about anal sex. And remember y'all we are all
totally different some like it , some don't , some are shy about it what ever.
Late last night i was pretty tired, that is a usual event for me after Fooding.
The problem however was that i was pretty horny too, and no boy toys to be
had.
But now wait, did the medical school not have this man who clean our floors
and such? A quick look-see confirmed what i already had suspected. They did
indeed have this man and what was even better he was living at the schools
area, with that outta the question, it was just a long feminine soaking shower
with some Jazmin and vanilla ascent, and well that was that.
Eventually i called him and was pretty forward about it , the text conversation
went along these lines
your text message" Hi it is Sandra, i need some tender love and care are you
home?"
2 minutes after
bubba" i am, what do you need help with?"
"Your text message" i need someone too try analsex out with, are you up for
that ?"
Bubba" you are just using me for your own joy, aren't you?"
Your text message,"yes i am, you are my boy toy, not my boyfriend, never
will be but i want someone to try it with and i am helplessly frustrated, if it is
not you i use then someone else who is free"
At this point i thought i pretty much had scared him off. But sometimes even
i get surprised.
10 minutes after.
Bubba, you have my address, right?
Your message, that is a stupid question, yes i do.
Bubba, the other nurses says you play with submissiveness too?
here my eyes was actually wide open, who the hell had told him that?
I am pretty private about that kind of interactions,
But i thought, fine fuck it.
Your message" i do Bubba, yes, why do you ask?
The long and short of the matter is, i was in the car 4 minutes after with some
bdsm gear, ropes, some floggers made out of soft latex, they don't hurt as
much, and well i thought if he was good no need for breaking the poor thing
the first night, right?
Here i gotta say that mostly in denmark Granted, we believe in female
Domination. We do have the wanna be masters of course and the girls who
likes such things, but it is not the norm.
I stopped the car in front of his house, it is little not more than 2, 3 rooms all
in all, got out locked the car, and got in, looking for him as i had told him too
he was laying head down on the floor between his hands, and with his eyes
hooded by a Towl.
Eventually i replaced it, laying a real soft silky blind fold tightly over his eyes
so he could not see anything.
I would have plugged his ears too if i could but i am now glad i did not.
I layed him on his site and started to guide him in,and Jesus H christ, i am not
sure i have ever seen a cock that big before. oh my fucking god, or allah, or
what ever.
It was like trying too control the space shuttle, at reentry.
Them who have heard me knows that i have a quite soothing and gentle
voice, but he was if possible obviously more sexual frustrated than i was. I
had thought of letting him take me Doggy style, and i am glad i didn't … that
would have been Catastrofic.
He was banging as hard as he could manage, but as i was laying on the site
and he was too i could softly but surely direct his cock where I wanted it to
go. But now what to do with it , surely if i let it in in that thrashing manner it
would ruin me for 1 or more weeks, not an option.
I tried too talk too him, using tone and pitch a thing that works with both
scared persons, kids and especially dogs, take it easy, take it easy, take it
easy.
He stopped, but not for long plus my own orgasm was Fast coming on, hard.
I had intentionally not used any lube on him, reason,the pain as his forskin
are pulled back would stop him a little, and i was right about that. Usually i
would not manipulate a person like that but 1 i am small, 2 he is big and
strong , so a little pain too make him stop a little is not a bad thing.
It worked slowly but surely… I could not enjoy it as much as i would else have
been able too.
But my over all conclution is that it is something that will definitely be tried
again.
Will i use him, not likely, the only reason i did it was I was absolutely in
helpless heat.
But then again, i might, if i can find better ways of holding him immobile and
if other things clicks too.
Anal for me gets 5 out of 5 stars.
Wow Sandi, I don't know if that's a true story or not, I assume it is. If not, it's a damned good fantasy.
Anyway, thanks for posting it.
I wish all the ladies I've known had been as forthcoming as you have.
Bob
Sounds pretty fake but interesting
Yes was skeptical of its realism, but I must admit that reading it got me going...
No one said it wasn't hot lol but fake
Those saying it's fake are from the States or the UK. Women from other cultures don't have the same type of anti-sex narrative, sexual hangups, or the need for a façade of sexual demurism as is stereotypical of females from English-speaking countries. I have no idea whether it's fake or not, but just because an American stereotypical girl / woman would scream 'eeewwwww' about it, doesn't mean grown noninfantilized women from elsewhere might not be open about their exploits. Sure, it's outside the imaginations of many of us acculturated in English-speaking countries, in particular the U.S., where this story runs counter to the statistically common heterosexual female narrative. I have no idea whether it's fake or not, but it's certainly entirely possible. Especially from a place where there's not the cultural need to maintain a childlike demure front about sexuality. It is hot, in a very independent, very adult, truly liberated and freethinking sense. I personally don't know how I feel about it, as I'm statistically unlikely to ever have that offered, and with the combination of no anal experience plus "the guy not doing it right" being precarious and injurious to her, I'd definitely do my fair share of reading first. I think it's natural to surmise, being in that situation, I'd be as cognizant and possible, taking great care before, during and after. But even that is not insurance against getting it wrong. Ive read this thread, my first actual consideration of this topic, to be honest. I only challenge the cultural narrative of the white, suburban female with the two-story house and the white picket fence, which is the default narrative at least in the U.S., causing people to assert this must be faked.
I have no way of knowing whether it was faked. Statistically unlikely in an English-speaking country and statistically far more likely in others where the 19th-century Victorian narrative hasn't been remodeled to new ideologies and perpetuated.
Everyone's got their right to an opinion, or lack thereof, on the issue though.
Here is why I think it could be fake:
She says, " The long and short of the matter is, i was in the car 4 minutes after with some
bdsm gear, ropes, some floggers made out of soft latex, they don't hurt as
much, and well i thought if he was good no need for breaking the poor thing
the first night, right?"
I thought she was blind and therefore the car statement seems ridiculous. But, maybe she isn't blind, or she has a silent submissive driver.
Anyway, it's a great fantasy, and I praise her for posting it.
Sandi, can we have more of your fantasies, whether or not they are true or false?
Bob
from everything she's said in public quicknotes, she's fully sighted. When she sent us a file of her playing the piano, it was a video file as well.
leo. massive over generalisation there in post 163. sorry. I just find that laughable. I did think it seemed fake, not because I'm from the UK, but just because of the way it was written. you seem to think you can predict peoples opinions on just about everything, and most of the time the only thing your observvations are based on is your own scued ideas about age, genda, and geographical location, or culture of origin. this is not a personal attack by any means. you are obviously an intelligent guy, but sometimes I really do wonder where you get some of your ideas from.
there are just as many open-minded, sexually liberated people in America and the UK as there are anywhere else in the world.
Even in Portland. Smile.
Now, Leo, what do you think of anal sex? Like, dislike it?
hi smiles… First of all too Bob, am sighted. So can definitely understand why
you said as you did, you just have given me a nice idea, thanks for that :)
Too Leo, of course you should read up before you attempts such things… and
well i should have made sure he could be controlled more so he could be
forced to be more gentle, but in the heat of passion.
Will write later if there is more too be written about.
Sandi
Bubba II.
Eventually i had decided that this would be a little different. As we well at
least the reader with a good brain might remember my first exploring out into
anal did not go entirely unhurting.
I had decided to let him fuck me in my room this time, most of my reasoning
was out of a practical matter. So, hospital duties, home shower, internally as
well as externally. And, Ewwwwwwwwwiiieeew! what a mess. But what don't
we do for the throws of passion, even if it means putting things up where the
sun don't shine?
1, 2, 3 times and well the water came out all clear. I for my part was having
more and more doubts.
I had decided that if it would hurt me this time, no more anal. Then clothes
on, Catsuit, outta the bathroom and into my room, picking up my pink c5
send a text,
Wet and willing,
Kitten. sent it , and, well after that was generally just laying down waiting.
I reached over turning on my all time Fave film thing Homeland, watching as
an hellfire took out a bunch of Muslims. Laying thinking about the fact not all
of them are bad, not all christians are bad, maybe not all is bad, generally?
I did not come longer in my thoughts, Knock Knock Knock.
I got up and let Bubba in, he looked over at my MBA and said something in
Arabic, that I took for being Sandi, you really do look smashing in that suit.
Him looking at the computer, it could have been something else though.
Lied down , starting licking. I will say it like this, his cock is not worth writing
about, but well, it fits, so who am i to whine, the thing i don't like about giving
blow jobs is not me making a mess… it is it making the mess in my mouth.
pushing him down on the bed i started blowing him… taking him into my
mouth, letting the tongue running around his head, round and round ,
spending a little time on the for side of the head… then slowly letting it
disappear into my warm soft mouth. I looked up at him, whispering in a tone i
really hoped he got, if you cum in my mouth, i am going to make a girl out of
you, okay it will be a Transgendered girl of sorts, but i mean it bubba. I
started to let my head bob up and down, letting it sink deeper and deeper for
each time i pushed down. Gagging as it hit my vomit reflex i pulled back,
gasping for air softly, then up and down a few more times, knowing if i kept
this up it would result in a mess and not from my point of view the good kind
of mess.
I took a condom rolling it on him,ignoring all of the usual male protests, about
i don't feel anything yada yada yada, told him too lay on his side, placed my
body next too his, and directed his cock towards my asshole. Slowly starting
too push something felt wrong so got up, found some vaseline, and put that
on the condom, there … much better. Whimpering a little as my ass got
stretched from his prick as it slipped inside of me .
I kept, whimpering, half from the pain, half in excitement. Ill give bubba
credit this time he was a little more gentle, he folded my legs so he could get
too my Cunt and Clit rubbing softly, and the added stimulation soon had me
almost hyperventilating, whimpering louder and louder so you like my black
cock? he growled.
I cried out, oh god yes , fuck me! fuck me!
Suddenly he pulled me over, pulled out and then hammered back in, i threw
my head back my mane whipping across his face and screamed.
I felt my eyes flying wide open, okay his dick is small but well obviously when
it hammers like that it feels bigger,but the added factor of the moving about,
and him still stimulating my Clit soon had me wildly , screaming and crying
as the orgasm thundered through me like the space shuttle taking off.
And that guys and girls, concludes the post for today.
@Post67: I haven't tried it, so I'm being honest when I say my opinion is in the "I don't acutally know" category. Hadn't even contemplated the option until this thread. I think I'd be disingenuous to say I didn't like it, not having tried it. But I'd be equally dishonest to claim I wanted it when aside from this thread it never crosses my mind.
Well I guess I'll throw in my two cents:
I personally never considered anal sex, giving or receiving, with great seriousness until I met my current girlfriend, who has a total anal fetish. Occasionally she'll where a butt plug during the day while going about her life when she knows that that night she'll be having sex. This puts her in a special hot mood. She likes having something in her ass, but isn't quite sure about how she feels about being fucked in the ass since she hasn't tried it yet. I'm willing to do that when she's ready to attempt it.
As for myself, I'm interested to see how I would like anal sex. My girlfriend has giving me anal oral sex before, and loves doing it with a passion. I found it an intensely strange sensation at first, but now actually enjoy it and wonder how much further I'd want to go with it. We're thinking of ordering a strap-on.
I've always been very sexually adventurous, and luckily I found someone who is that way as well. I've never understood the ambivalence which many straight men have toward receiving anal sex. I don't consider myself straight, more like queer or pansexual, though I haven't been with another guy so I guess you'd call that bicurious. Still, I feel that lots of guys I know reject the idea immediately, maybe because they feel it's immasculating somehow. I don't feel this way; I've been anally stimulated with a finger while she's blowing me, and it's probably one of the hottest and most titillating feelings I've experienced.
Maybe others could shed light on why lots of straight guys tend to be skiddish at the idea of receiving?.
Jake
Ah, a lucky man. That ones a keeper. Smile.
Sandi, if a woman is sucking me and tells me she's going to make a girl out of me if I come, she's going to stop, and I'm leaving.
That is surely a turn off.
These stories are fake. Sounds like something right out of a fetish or porn site. Lol!
This brings to mind another question. I'm circumcised; the guys I've been with, save one, have all been cut. I generally prefer cut over uncircumcised because I think it's cleaner and looks better. But I wonder. Have any of you, guy or gal, been with an uncircumcised male, and what is it like being fucked by someone uncut versus someone that's cut? Just curious.
I've never seen a guy who was uncut. Not sure if I'd like it or not, but I'm curious as hell about it.
As you do your explorations RE: cut vs. uncut, take a look at the ill effects of male genital mutilation. Not as popular a topic as female, because men, even newborn males, are expected to just suck it up. But, worth adding to the discussion of cut vs. uncut.
Had I had a son, (and a backbone at the same time in those days), I would not have had him cut.
men in the UK and elsewhere who are uncut don't get penile cancer or anything else in higher degrees, and just learn how to clean themselves early on. MGM is as real as FGM: Thousands of nerve endings are cut in the process. It's been said the clitoris of the penis is actually the foreskin.
I can say they look weird to me. At least the one that I've seen. Looked a bit like a slinky and I was put off by it. I've heard that partners of uncut males have a higher degree of yeast infections. I'll do more research, but I think that uncut for me would be a real turn-off. I'm glad I was cut and I don't pine away for my foreskin; that seems a bit weird, speaking just for me. I don't consider it genital mutilation at all, but everyone has their opinions. Might be getting away from the topic though, but it might be an interesting one to er, bring up elsewhere. Hmm.
Ok I shouldn't sidetrack further but: No I don't pine for a foreskin, and if you try the reversal techniques you don't get the real deal anyhow.
The bit on yeast infections and such, that is because they weren't taught proper hygiene. This is what I learned from parenting info nowadays. Outside the U.S. male circumcision is not routine anymore, and it's not officially considered a necessary health practice anymore. Often the male infant's heart stops during the procedure, and they have a lot of pain afterwards. Sure, we adults do not remember it. And since I raised a daughter and not a son, I have not gone into greater depth than that on this subject. Mostly it's still around as a way to maintain the religious rights of the parents, something that trumps all in the U.S.
I know a guy who was born in Mexico, where it's not routine. When he was about 21 or 22, he got circumcised because he hated how unhygienic it was to have the foreskin. His parents freaked out, but he doesn't regret it a bit. He's Catholic, so the religious thing didn't even play a part at all. It was more a matter of aesthetics and hygiene.
Some mothers do it because they feel it looks better.
I understand when you do it, it is best right after birth. That way the pain is small.
Proper cleaning even when it is done needs to be used.
As to sex, that was an interesting question.
I would imagine if feels like a man wearing a condom properly fitted.
When the condoms on correct, you have some loose at the end of the penis. After he's inside, I wouldn't think you'd feel any difference.
I'm interested in this anser too.
Its not like that so much, because the skin tightens during arousal. There isn't an overhang that just flops about. as for feeling, well you'd have to ask somebody else. Glad i'm uncut though personally.
okay so here is what i think about cut, uncut.
First of all seen from a medical point of view… bubba is cut, and well he
definitely gets his orgasms fast enough, in fact i will say too fast, but that is
my personal opinion. Secondly, the way his cock just glides into me is
absolutely breathtaking. I wish i was brave enough to really let him have at
my throat , that is another matter, though.
MMM finding a uncut male on the net should not be all that hard, I Must
investigate. Of course all in the name of Science.
I am not sure i gave it much thought before but the way that uncut kinda
hides the glanse is just Ewwww. at least that is the thoughts i have about it ,
and no way on earth would i ever suck that one oh my.
I can assure you it is no problem at all to keep clean if you are uncut. Maybe if you don't bother it could be pretty nasty, but who'd not bother when they know they could miss out on a good blowjob.
Exactly. There's always showers before sex too.
Or like prostitutes, they wash the clients first. MMM. Someone bring the warm towel.
Okay, I'm curious as hell about the whole uncut thing. I know this isn't the board for it, and creating a board for it would be a bit awkward, but if one of you uncut guys, or someone who has been with an uncut guy wouldn't mind explaining it in a bit more detail for me, you know how to find me.
Imagine having an eye lid on the tip of your penis. Or like a small flap of skin that is attached at the top so you can pull it up.
That is the only way I can think of how to describe it.
I enjoy a hard pounding in my ass.
it feels so good.
i like anel sex a lot.
i really like it while a person does it dry cause i hold my breath and let him put it in then
let my breath go.
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I like it, but it is painful.
Just have it more often.
Tell your partner to use more lube and patients.
If you enjoy it after the pain, or with, you'd really enjoy it pain free.
If you are going to do this, never switch from anal to vaginal sex without showering first right after anal. You can cause very bad bacteria issues if you do.
True enough. Or use a condom for the anal sex. Take it off after, and use a sex wet one then you can continue.
I personally love it in particular when drunk, it feels extra naughty, kinky and derty in a very sexy way. Most of the girls I dated didn't like it & i respected their wishes but I had 3 girls who were totally mad for anal sex in fact one of them she wouldn't get her orgasm until i finish inside her ass
And what about you? Do you like to have your own ass played with? Can she slide a finger or a small dildo in there while she sucks you off?
no, not a tall, i don't get any pleasure from that
I've talked to a lot of women who resent the fact that the guy wants to fuck her up the ass, but the guy is unwilling to take anything up his own ass. A lot of women have told me that they might be more inclined to try it if the guy was also willing to experience the pain, but since the guy usually won't let anything go up there, it just convinces the women that even the guy must think it would be painful, so I find it interesting.
Oh, and as for myself, I don't care if the guy doesn't want anything in his ass, even a finger. That's fine with me, but I at least wanna squeeze and massage it and rub my lubed fingers up and down the crack of it when I'm sucking his dick.
fair enough anthony, for me one of enjoying giving anal sex is the feeling of dominating and i am not submisive otherwise i might have enjoy it. I am gentle when doing anal and work my through it and normally prefer it to be the last bit of hot action! lol
Bring it on girl, I say.
Doesn't make me feel submissive at all.
I've not found a girl that will return the favor yet though.
Well, my doctor, but she doesn't turn me on. Lol
I'm submissive to a point. I love to please a guy, but I'm not really big in to the whole humiliation and degredation aspect. I want to suck or jerk the guy off. I want him to fuck me. I want him to really get in to it, too. If the dirty talk is what does it for him, then I'm fine with it. I like it when the guy knows what I want, and he's willing to make me do it, but I also like it when the guy plays hard to get, for a little while. But then, I kind of like the attitude of, "Ok, so you wanna do this stuff, then get over here and start doing it, right now!" I know, it's kind of messed up. Maybe I like this because it's a lot of what I've experienced.
hi.
Anal is just nice. and to me at least it have nothing to do with submissiveness
at all. It is the only way i can relax and let a guy make me cum. it is as
simple as that :)
If he can't do it , no go, period.
So it is the only way you can get off?
I don't know about the dom vs. sub thing in Sandi's post, but as I said many
posts ago:
I've never had a woman approach me about this subject but my one concern is
the anus being dilated enough. After all, every heterosexual man with the most
basic sexual education knows that the vagina must be properly dilated and wet
before entry. Otherwise, the penis no matter how carefully placed, could hurt
her. Now I understand this is a common method for gay men, not saying the act
is itself gay. So there must be more to it.
But I think I would only do anal under one condition; that she was on top. The
problem with a dry / tight area is by the time the other party says to stop, or
tenses up, they've already been hurt. It's part of what makes "taking her
virginity," (ridiculous term as that is), so challenging.
If a woman actually wanted it and approached me for it, provided I was in the
right situation, I guess I'd have to first be convinced there was a way to dilate
or otherwise make it okay.
I've never given this topic the kind of consideration that this board proposes,
but being directly honest, that concern of mine would top it all. Every man
knows how to not only stop but slide out safely from the vagina. But I wonder
with the anus being smaller if even exiting after an accidental injury could pose
a challenge. Again, gay men do it, and so it apparently works. And at least two
women on here have spoken of it favorably.
But a heterosexual man expressing reservation? Not only because of the "idk"
factor or anything, but quite possibly the concerns I've raised here. I know I'm
not the only man who thinks as I do about these things. It's rather common in
fact, outside of pornos and the Internet. An unfortunate but constant reality of
being the one with the dick.
I can only speak on this from the perspective of a guy who actually does like to be penetrated. With plenty of lube and a slow entrance, it's great. And yes, the first time I do it with a new partner, I like being on top. That let's me set the pace somewhat, but don't be completely fooled. If the guy is on the bottom, he can still suddenly thrust up and in, and it does hurt then.
Your local or online sex toy shop has many items to make the process easier.
Good Vibrations caters to women and will have instructional material if you are so inclined Leo. Smile.
You are correct its smaller and takes more time to dilate for some people.
Some people can just be lubed and go. Some can even do it pretty dry, because they get wet just like vaginal sex.
No one gets injured if you care about them and take your time, or allow them to do the excepting.
Different positions work best for different people.
For whatever reason, the people that try it, and have it done with patients say they come harder then vaginal sex, as you see on this board.
Knocks their socks off, so to speak.
I'd say it is much like vaginal sex in that some women can takemore of you inside, others can only take some.
It gets better with practice.
Hi leo.
Obviously as you said given the anus is smaller you have to dilate it before you
slide in so to speak, there are many ways in which you can do that.
if she don’t want her pussy used at all use lube, there are many on the market,
if she is nice and wet use her own juices, if you never done this before, play
round her anus with your fingers softly so you know what you are getting into
and get a feel for her anatomy.
If she is well traned, it might go easier,
but personally there is nothing as good as 2 fingers to warm me up, before he
starts the fuckin.
Keep in mind that the asshole can be dilated quite a bit, for natural reasons, if
big things can come out, big things can come in ,to given time, and love.
As for the hurting. Really if you are gentle and careful she might not hurt at all
but will quiver under you in orgasmic bliss orgasm after orgasm after orgasm, is
there anything better?
If you have more questions, ask. SandI
Beautiful instructions. Smile.
And to think that I'm the one who got Sandi to try anal! LOL
I've heard you can get lube with a numbing agent. Hmmm but wouldn't that ruin things a bit. I mean, you'd take away a sensation.
No. It only numbs the spencter muscle for a bit.
It isn't lube necessarily, but a cream.
You put a bit on your finger and rub it around the opening.
Now you can use lube and finish the job with fingers or whatever.
I've never actually done the penetrating, but have always been the submissive partner in that, so I have no idea how it'll feel giving as opposed to receiving. I do know that my guy and I have talked a little about ways to do it because of his disability, and we've figured out that I have to ride astride, or have us lying on our sides, spooning, with him entering me. I'm very intrigued either way.
Sit on his lap.
He has to be at an angle, and you have to adjust, but it works.
Or have him lie down on his back and mount him if he can lay on his back.
i think i would just use lots of lube, if i had to do the penetrating part, but
have only done it with fingers so that was a little more easy and the guy i was
doing it on could take my whole fist, so a little more lube was needed for that.
What do I think of anal sex? I try not to think of it at all, but thanks for asking anyway.
Laughing.
Lol that was a great post! I do say that in the heat of the moment a hole is a hole though I don't give it much thought.
I think it happens most often, a lot in prisons that have men and probably in some gay bars or clubs that have mostly gay and/or homosexual customers.
I'm a total bottom myself. I've never penetrated anyone. I've always wanted to try lying on my side with the guy behind me.
It makes me wonder how sexually informed people are when they put anal sex happening more often with Gay men and in Gay bars?
Sure it be one of the ways Gay men can have sex, but anal sex isn't necessarily a Gay act.
It was and is a form of birth control, and many women actually enjoy and seek it.
Wayne, this just isn't the place to meet sexually informed people. There are a few here, but it's not the norm.
Smile. Understood.
So, I ecucate.
I suppose I am tired of seeing Anal sex means gay men, or only something gay men do.
Some gay men, as posted, never penetrate and have no desire to do so.
If a man expresses the desire for anal sex, he much be gay and just using a woman this way to satisfy his gay needs.
Anal sex is unnatural, so there for only for homosexual men.
It be the most natural birth control method available, and as natural as a woman giving a man a blow job.
Humans are designed to get pleasure from it if done properly.
You’ve got for men, prostate stimulation. For women, it is even more complexed, and many prefer it to vagina sex for pleasure strength.
If unnatural, why do so many get so much pleasure from it?
Rant over.
Smile.
Nah, not something I wanna try. I would want the girl giving me some tongue while we're doing it, so...
I think people may claim something is only for the gay community because they may have insicurities. That's not an insult; we all have insecurity about some things.